Xaela, Sperrak, and...Zcook!
Sometimes you need to do things to bond with your spouse- like playing video games.
I've been using some nap times as of late not to clean my pitifully-dirty house, but to spend time with my little fairy. She's getting to be quite powerful, actually. (Actually, as of a few minutes ago, she's a little more powerful than my dear husband's "Sperrak"...tee-hee-hee!)
And then you have our 'alt." He cooks for us. :)
Yup, I'll admit it. Sometimes bonding with your spouse turns out to really be quite fun. ;)